Research Discoveries #MFRWauthor

ResearchGenerally, I love doing research for books. Since I write contemporary romance (mostly), I usually only have to research towns where my characters live, street names and store locations and such, if I’m trying to keep it real. But I have written few historical romances, too, and for those, research becomes a little harder. And more interesting in a lot of ways.

Take for example a WIP time travel book. The time/location is 1903, North Carolina Outer Banks, right when the Wright brothers were testing out their flying skills. One of the things I learned was that the Outer Banks held very independent views about the world than the rest of North Carolina, possibly because of the amount of trading ships that came by. They were exposed to broader viewpoints. During the Civil War, they were not especially all excited to fight for the South, and the North found a safe port there. Slavery—only profitable on large farms with people-intensive crops like tobacco and cotton—was not carried on much on those narrow strips of land jutting out into the ocean. I didn’t know most of that before I started researching my book.

In another book, I was able to gaze at maps of San Francisco to plan where IResearch on the Internet wanted my heroine to live. I love maps and they are one of the things I research for most books.

The trouble with research is that it’s very easy to get sidetracked. You start looking up what the pioneers ate on the trek west, find out they ate rabbit, and suddenly find yourself reading about Beatrix Potter and her animals. Especially when researching online, it’s difficult to stay focused. In a library, with actual books, I used to be careful looking for particular Library researchpoints. I still was easily distracted but not to where three clicks on a screen can take me to different universes, not just a small digression. Still, what did we do before the Internet?? I wouldn’t go back…

Is research been fun for you? Or is it a chore?

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Dee
Mystic Desire: A collection of supernatural tales sure to keep you up at night, peering into the shadows! Or just wide awake, reading.
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Relief! I don’t have to do it again! #MFRWauthor

Cleaning suppliesI’ll admit it. I’m cheap. So to ask what I would pay someone else to do in my place is kind of a hard one. There are plenty of things I don’t like to do—dusting, vacuuming, spring cleaning, cleaning the bathroom (notice a theme here?)—but would I actually pay someone money to do them for me? Hmm. Maybe. It’s all relative. How much are we talking here?

When I lived in Virginia, years ago, I paid a woman I know $25/day to come in every two weeks and do the things I listed above, except spring cleaning. She spent 2-3 hours and when I came home, it was heaven! To get the same service now I’d have to pay three times that amount. I’m not sure $75/day would feel like heaven or hell. Sure, the house would be clean but… $75!! There’s a limit to how much I’m willing to give up for a clean house!

What I would pay someone else to do for me—and I do pay for—is take Lawn carecare of the lawn. I spent m childhood mowing the grass, but I sure don’t want to do it now. We have a postage-size lawn area, but it’s still worth it to pay a young man to fertilize, trim and mow the grass. Now there is less chance of meeting up with a snake, being injured by a stray rock, or getting sunburned on my neck. Win-win all around!

Yes, I am cheap, but even I have my dreams. And I will pay for them! 😉

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Dee
Mystic Desire: A collection of supernatural tales sure to keep you up at night, peering into the shadows! Or just wide awake, reading.
Only a Good Man Will Do

Naval Maneuvers 

Time Travel? I don’t think so! #MFRWauthor

Time TravelI’m not a big one for the idea of time travel. Don’t get me wrong, I love history and the future intrigues me. But one step wrong in the past and I might not be around for the future. Am I right? And going into the future, I might learn a few things I wish I hadn’t found out. It would be very hard to live in the moment if you knew what the next moment was going to bring. Nope. Not in favor of time travel.

But…

If I could travel, I’d set the Time Machine for 1781, Yorktown, Virginia. Yes, all the glory for the American strike for freedom is given to Philadelphia and the writers/signers of the Declaration of Independence, but the final battle of the war and the surrender, took place in Yorktown.

Mind you, I’d stay in the Time Machine because that area of Virginia, runSurrender to General Washington in Yorktown, Virginia through with rivers and near the shores of the Chesapeake Bay, was rife with malaria. In fact, malaria did as good a job fighting for the new country of America as the soldiers. Half of the British army had been struck down with the disease, whereas the American army, having mostly grown up in the region, had immunity. I would love to see the surrender of General Cornwallis to General Washington, and to feel the enormity of our accomplishment. A small, upstart country with a generally ragtag army of farmers, had beaten the premier nation in the world. We had beaten the King.

Revolutionary War cannonballIn current time, I’ve walked the battlements of Yorktown. I saw where the cannon were placed, where our forces and the French bombarded the British, and where the Brits fought back gallantly but without success. I could imagine the cannon fire being heard in nearby Williamsburg, and I’ve walked those streets, too. That part of Virginia is filled with history, and you can’t help but feel it as you stroll the cobblestones of Duke of Gloucester Street or stand on the battlements facing the York River.

For better or worse, that’s as close as I will get to the actual battle and surrender. I’m glad it happened, glad we won our freedom, and glad that so much of the history is preserved for current and future generations to experience, if only a little bit.

I’m looking a little sheepish here, because I have to be true to myself. Battles, schmattles, let’s not forget that happiest of places in our tour of history, the gift shop! And that’s all I’m gonna say.

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Dee
Mystic Desire: A collection of supernatural tales sure to keep you up at night, peering into the shadows! Or just wide awake, reading!
Only a Good Man Will Do
Naval Maneuvers

Fear: the killer of dreams #MFRWauthor

FearI don’t think there is anything more debilitating than fear. It’s a major factor in what holds people back and keeps success just out of reach. And the sad thing is, fear of whatever, is hardly ever real. That is, the reality of what we fear often never comes to pass.

When Jack and I first thought about going trucking, I had all kinds of reasons why we shouldn’t. I was afraid of letting go of all we had, afraid of changing jobs in such a big way (I was working in the acquisitions department of a large county library at the time), afraid of what people would say, afraid of what my parents would say (they had just paid for their little girl to go to college!). I was afraid of so much, but mostly of failure. I wanted to go on the road in a big, bad eighteen-wheeler, but I was afraid. Then a friend sat me down and said, “Look, what’s the worst that can happen?” She pointed out that both Jack and I had parents who loved us and they wouldn’t let us live on the streets. So really, the worst that would happen if we failed was that we would go back to Virginia, find another apartment, find other jobs, and pick up where we left off.

Her words—and I’ll never forget them—were like throwing water in the face of a person shocked into a stupor. The worst that could happen suddenly didn’t seem that bad at all. And as it turned out, there was nothing to be afraid of. If I had let my fear hold me back, I would have missed eight of the best years of our lives. We saw more, did more, and became more than we’d imagined, and we were able to do it together.

When we moved to San Francisco, Jack proposed getting rid of our car. OurFear only car. “What?” I practically screeched. “Do without a car???” I hadn’t been without my own transportation since I was sixteen except during my first three years of college. A car was independence, not just a vehicle. I was afraid to be without. What if I wanted to go somewhere?? Jack convinced me, however. The day we gave up the car, a weight fell off my shoulders. If there was a car alarm sounding, I knew it wasn’t my car. Pay the meters? Not us. And guess what. There was a cheapy car rental place about four blocks up the street. I think in a year and a half we used it twice. Fear would have added a burden to our time in the city if we had kept the car for those “what if?” times.

We shouldn’t let fear hold us captive, but I know that’s easy to say. And the sad thing is, fear is not only debilitating, it’s often dangerous. How many people have stayed in toxic relationships because they were afraid of the unknown if they left? How many kids have kept harmful secrets because of the fear some monster put in their minds? How many people have wanted to do the right thing about a situation but didn’t because they were afraid of the consequences? Fear can be harmful in more ways than we know. Fear can be a killer.

Fear is an emotion we can defeat if we take a breath and logically think through whatever is plaguing us. Stop, BREATHE, think, BREATHE, and then imagine the worst that can happen. If that “worst” is something you can live with—and it so often is—take the chance!

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Dee
Only a Good Man Will Do: Seriously ambitious man seeks woman to encourage his goals, support his (hopeful) position as Headmaster of Westover Academy, and be purer than Caesar’s wife. Good luck with that!

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Writing about…myself? #MFRWauthor

Drawing ourselves into our storiesI think it would be very hard to write and never put yourself in the story. I mean, who knows us better than us? And even if we don’t want to, little bits of ourselves find their way into what we write, almost whether we want them to or not.

As part of my life, I’ve written bosses and friends into my books because I’m around their real-life characters so much. I write my husband into most every book, either as villain or hero (mostly hero!). Who is a better foil for those people then me, since I interact with them so often? I’ve added dreams of mine (things I want to do or see) as opposed to actual eventsDreaming because that’s more fun, and strangely, enough, looking back, I write heroines most often who look like what I’ve always thought I’d like to look: taller, slimmer, red hair and green or bright blue eyes. Sometimes real life is not so magical but we all have dreams and I like to add mine to my books.

I don’t think it’s cheating to write about the things you know best, and as I said at the beginning, that’s probably you. Embrace it!

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Dee
Only a Good Man Will Do: Seriously ambitious man seeks woman to encourage his goals, support his (hopeful) position as Headmaster of Westover Academy, and be purer than Caesar’s wife. Good luck with that!

Naval Maneuvers: When a woman requires an earth-shattering crush of pleasure to carry her away, she can’t do better than to call on the US Navy. Sorry, Marines!