{"id":1679,"date":"2019-11-13T15:17:15","date_gmt":"2019-11-13T23:17:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.nomadauthors.com\/blog\/?p=1679"},"modified":"2019-11-13T15:17:15","modified_gmt":"2019-11-13T23:17:15","slug":"giving-mfrwauthor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.nomadauthors.com\/blog\/2019\/11\/13\/giving-mfrwauthor\/","title":{"rendered":"Giving #MFRWauthor"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I just read a news article about an actor and how he and his wife approach Christmas gifts with their son. He said that they bought nothing for his Christmas when he was under one-year-old because he wouldn\u2019t know the difference. And as he got older and they noticed that he saw Christmas gifts as just a bunch of stuff\u2014one gift after another\u2014they cut back until he appreciated each gift he got as something of value.<\/p>\n<p>I thought about that as I got to the point of writing this week\u2019s topic. How do we give gifts that are personal? Here are a few ideas I had.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Give gifts from the heart. I made it a habit long ago to give gifts to <img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"1690\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.nomadauthors.com\/blog\/2019\/11\/13\/giving-mfrwauthor\/depositphotos_73839353_s-2019_givefromheart\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.nomadauthors.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Depositphotos_73839353_s-2019_GiveFromHeart.jpg?fit=1000%2C698&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"1000,698\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;4&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;SLT-A65V&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;1415026277&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;50&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;400&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0.005&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"Depositphotos_73839353_s-2019_GiveFromHeart\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.nomadauthors.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Depositphotos_73839353_s-2019_GiveFromHeart.jpg?fit=840%2C586&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"wp-image-1690 alignright\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.nomadauthors.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Depositphotos_73839353_s-2019_GiveFromHeart.jpg?resize=172%2C120&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Giving from the heart\" width=\"172\" height=\"120\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.nomadauthors.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Depositphotos_73839353_s-2019_GiveFromHeart.jpg?resize=300%2C209&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.nomadauthors.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Depositphotos_73839353_s-2019_GiveFromHeart.jpg?resize=768%2C536&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.nomadauthors.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Depositphotos_73839353_s-2019_GiveFromHeart.jpg?w=1000&amp;ssl=1 1000w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 172px) 85vw, 172px\" \/>people I love that I love, too. So, unless my mom asked for a puce-colored sweater where the sleeves hung over her hands and the hem reached her knees, I gave her a sweater I would like to wear myself. I gave a gift that would mean something to me if I received it.<\/li>\n<li>Give gifts that people need. I don\u2019t mean giving only underwear for Christmas\u2014people need joy as well as undies\u2014but there\u2019s no need to give a person something they have no use for. My mom is on a fixed income and appreciates gift cards she can use to buy things she needs instead of having to use her own money. I always used to think that gift cards were impersonal, but they\u2019re what she needs at this stage of life, so that\u2019s what she gets.<\/li>\n<li>Give something intangible. A smile at the right time can be the greatest <img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"1688\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.nomadauthors.com\/blog\/2019\/11\/13\/giving-mfrwauthor\/depositphotos_4839383_s-2019_giftsmile\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.nomadauthors.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Depositphotos_4839383_s-2019_GiftSmile.jpg?fit=1000%2C667&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"1000,667\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;4.5&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;Canon EOS-1Ds Mark II&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;1267539272&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;175&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;400&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0.01&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;1&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"Depositphotos_4839383_s-2019_GiftSmile\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.nomadauthors.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Depositphotos_4839383_s-2019_GiftSmile.jpg?fit=840%2C560&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"wp-image-1688 alignleft\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.nomadauthors.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Depositphotos_4839383_s-2019_GiftSmile.jpg?resize=182%2C121&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Give a smile\" width=\"182\" height=\"121\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.nomadauthors.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Depositphotos_4839383_s-2019_GiftSmile.jpg?resize=300%2C200&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.nomadauthors.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Depositphotos_4839383_s-2019_GiftSmile.jpg?resize=768%2C512&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.nomadauthors.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Depositphotos_4839383_s-2019_GiftSmile.jpg?w=1000&amp;ssl=1 1000w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 182px) 85vw, 182px\" \/>gift of all. Lending a helping hand when you see it\u2019s needed, thanking a serviceman or woman, or police officer for their service, or saying a kind word are all ways that make the recipient warm inside, and they cost nothing. My mom was always (and fortunately for me, still is) always ready with a hug or encouragement. Always willing to jump in and give me whatever it is I need.<\/li>\n<li>Give something tangible. Charities always need more help at the holidays, but they also need a boost all year long. My mom tithes all<img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"1689\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.nomadauthors.com\/blog\/2019\/11\/13\/giving-mfrwauthor\/begging-hands\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.nomadauthors.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Depositphotos_15356143_s-2019_GiveWhatsNeeded.jpg?fit=999%2C667&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"999,667\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;2.5&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;NIKON D800&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;Begging hands&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;1350728623&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;50&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;125&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0.004&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;Begging hands&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;1&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"Begging hands\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.nomadauthors.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Depositphotos_15356143_s-2019_GiveWhatsNeeded.jpg?fit=840%2C561&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"wp-image-1689 alignright\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.nomadauthors.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Depositphotos_15356143_s-2019_GiveWhatsNeeded.jpg?resize=180%2C120&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Giving gifts that are tangible\" width=\"180\" height=\"120\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.nomadauthors.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Depositphotos_15356143_s-2019_GiveWhatsNeeded.jpg?resize=300%2C200&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.nomadauthors.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Depositphotos_15356143_s-2019_GiveWhatsNeeded.jpg?resize=768%2C513&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.nomadauthors.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Depositphotos_15356143_s-2019_GiveWhatsNeeded.jpg?w=999&amp;ssl=1 999w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 180px) 85vw, 180px\" \/> year, but she doesn&#8217;t tithe to her church, as such. She tithes in kind, by giving to two particular charities: one is an Indian school in South Dakota. She and my aunt send books and school supplies during the year and all kinds of gloves, scarves and hats in the winter. They buy travel size personal items and small teddy bears and package them to give to women&#8217;s shelters. When women escape horrible situations at home, they leave with just what they have on, and they need more, so Mom and my aunt help provide those things.<\/li>\n<li>Give time. Another intangible that <em>might<\/em> cost something if it means taking time from work is the gift of time. Time is infinite, but time here<img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"1687\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.nomadauthors.com\/blog\/2019\/11\/13\/giving-mfrwauthor\/happy-romantic-couple-enjoying-beautiful-sunset-at-the-beach\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.nomadauthors.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Depositphotos_9757984_s-2019_GiftTime.jpg?fit=999%2C666&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"999,666\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;6.3&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;Quincy Dein&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;Canon EOS-1D Mark IV&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;Happy Romantic Couple Enjoying Beautiful Sunset at the Beach&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;1332353991&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;16&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;100&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0.0025&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;Happy Romantic Couple Enjoying Beautiful Sunset at the Beach&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;1&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"Happy Romantic Couple Enjoying Beautiful Sunset at the Beach\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.nomadauthors.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Depositphotos_9757984_s-2019_GiftTime.jpg?fit=840%2C560&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"wp-image-1687 alignleft\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.nomadauthors.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Depositphotos_9757984_s-2019_GiftTime.jpg?resize=161%2C107&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Give time\" width=\"161\" height=\"107\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.nomadauthors.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Depositphotos_9757984_s-2019_GiftTime.jpg?resize=300%2C200&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.nomadauthors.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Depositphotos_9757984_s-2019_GiftTime.jpg?resize=768%2C512&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.nomadauthors.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Depositphotos_9757984_s-2019_GiftTime.jpg?w=999&amp;ssl=1 999w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 161px) 85vw, 161px\" \/> on earth, with loved ones or even those we don\u2019t know, like folks at a nursing home or hospital, is <em>not<\/em> infinite. Once a day is gone it never comes again. I live too far from Mom to see her often, but we talk weekly and when we do have time together, we cherish it. Time and love are the two greatest gifts!<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>I do try each Christmas to follow these gift-giving ideas, though I don\u2019t always succeed. I tend to give Jack things that <em>I<\/em> think he needs, not what <em>he<\/em> thinks he needs. (I do know <em>best<\/em>, don&#8217;t I? It turns out, not so much!) But I think the best point to remember about personal gift giving is that it\u2019s not just for Christmas\u2014it\u2019s a notion we should follow all year round.<\/p>\n<p>Read the next blog in the blog hop by going <a href=\"http:\/\/mfrw52week.blogspot.com\/\">here<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/nomadauthors.com\/deesknight\/\">Dee<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/mybook.to\/OneWomanOnly\">One Woman Only<\/a>: The Good Man Series, Book 2 Jonah\u2019s story! Can a simple mechanic rekindle with his high school love? She says no, but Jonah loves a challenge!<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/322Ziq3\">Mystic Desire<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/2q7ovi4\">Only a Good Man Will Do<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/2q7Jp0S\">Naval Maneuvers<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I just read a news article about an actor and how he and his wife approach Christmas gifts with their son. He said that they bought nothing for his Christmas when he was under one-year-old because he wouldn\u2019t know the difference. And as he got older and they noticed that he saw Christmas gifts as &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nomadauthors.com\/blog\/2019\/11\/13\/giving-mfrwauthor\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Giving #MFRWauthor&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[5,3,1],"tags":[8,909,594,301,908],"class_list":["post-1679","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-author-information","category-general","category-uncategorized","tag-dee-s-knight","tag-getting-personal","tag-gift-giving","tag-gifts","tag-giving"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p9wA33-r5","jetpack-related-posts":[],"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nomadauthors.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1679","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nomadauthors.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nomadauthors.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nomadauthors.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nomadauthors.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1679"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.nomadauthors.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1679\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1693,"href":"https:\/\/www.nomadauthors.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1679\/revisions\/1693"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nomadauthors.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1679"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nomadauthors.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1679"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nomadauthors.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1679"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}