{"id":1013,"date":"2019-05-28T07:42:21","date_gmt":"2019-05-28T14:42:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.nomadauthors.com\/blog\/?p=1013"},"modified":"2019-05-28T07:42:27","modified_gmt":"2019-05-28T14:42:27","slug":"the-sort-of-not-appreciated-gift-mfrwauthor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.nomadauthors.com\/blog\/2019\/05\/28\/the-sort-of-not-appreciated-gift-mfrwauthor\/","title":{"rendered":"The (sort of not) appreciated gift #MFRWauthor"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I am not married to a romantic. Don&#8217;t get me wrong, he has his moments\u2014lots of them, actually\u2014but not really when it comes to gifts. He doesn&#8217;t give me flowers\u2014<img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"1018\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.nomadauthors.com\/blog\/2019\/05\/28\/the-sort-of-not-appreciated-gift-mfrwauthor\/depositphotos_183111410_s-2015_tulips\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.nomadauthors.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/Depositphotos_183111410_s-2015_tulips.jpg?fit=500%2C333&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"500,333\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;10&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;Canon EOS 5D Mark IV&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;1517495359&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;70&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;100&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0.008&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;1&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"Depositphotos_183111410_s-2015_tulips\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.nomadauthors.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/Depositphotos_183111410_s-2015_tulips.jpg?fit=500%2C333&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"wp-image-1018 alignright\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.nomadauthors.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/Depositphotos_183111410_s-2015_tulips.jpg?resize=176%2C117&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Bouquet of tulips\" width=\"176\" height=\"117\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.nomadauthors.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/Depositphotos_183111410_s-2015_tulips.jpg?resize=300%2C200&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.nomadauthors.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/Depositphotos_183111410_s-2015_tulips.jpg?w=500&amp;ssl=1 500w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 176px) 85vw, 176px\" \/><em>ever<\/em>. He is of the opinion that when a man buys a woman flowers he&#8217;s feeling guilty about something. And he doesn&#8217;t buy perfume or pretty trinkets, though at times he has gifted me with some of my favorite earrings. No, my hubby is a practical gift giver.<\/p>\n<p>I have at least three brief cases, despite the fact I&#8217;ve never worked in a field where they were needed. One he even told me he bought because it would hold folders and such but looked like a purse instead of a briefcase. That gift proved that he&#8217;d never really looked at a purse. I&#8217;ve also received two digital cameras\u2014with all the extras\u2014despite the fact I rarely remember to take photos, and that we now carry our phones with us everywhere. I&#8217;ve received speakers for the computer\u2014once a high-def woofer and tweeter\u2014all when I don&#8217;t like to listen to anything when I&#8217;m working on the computer.<\/p>\n<p>None of that dispels the excitement of receiving a gift from him. He&#8217;s also bought all three of the eBook readers I&#8217;ve had and a few pretty fabulous things like <img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"185\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.nomadauthors.com\/blog\/2018\/05\/22\/the-best-gift-ever-mfrwauthor\/mixer-with-christmas-decoration\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.nomadauthors.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/Depositphotos_161814860_s-2015_KitchenAid.jpg?fit=500%2C333&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"500,333\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;13&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;CELAL ERDOGDU&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;on&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;Mixer with Christmas Decoration&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;1354479206&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;CELAL ERDOGDU&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;50&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;200&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0.008&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;Mixer with Christmas Decoration&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;1&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.nomadauthors.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/Depositphotos_161814860_s-2015_KitchenAid.jpg?fit=500%2C333&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"wp-image-185 alignleft\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.nomadauthors.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/Depositphotos_161814860_s-2015_KitchenAid.jpg?resize=165%2C110&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Kitchen Aid gift!\" width=\"165\" height=\"110\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.nomadauthors.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/Depositphotos_161814860_s-2015_KitchenAid.jpg?resize=300%2C200&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.nomadauthors.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/Depositphotos_161814860_s-2015_KitchenAid.jpg?w=500&amp;ssl=1 500w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 165px) 85vw, 165px\" \/>my KitchenAid mixer and kitchen tools. He also learned what I do like in pocketbooks, in spite of the briefcase mix-ups, and he&#8217;s discovered that jewelry doesn&#8217;t have to be expensive for me to love it. One year when finances were particularly tight he wrapped a bag of miniature Baby Ruth candy bars, and it thrilled me. When the right sentiment is behind it, any gift can be wonderful.<\/p>\n<p>I smile (or try to) no matter what the gift, mainly because the man who gives them is far more important than anything he could ever wrap, and because he&#8217;s <img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"543\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.nomadauthors.com\/blog\/2018\/12\/26\/wedding-disasters-mfrwauthor\/wedding-rings\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.nomadauthors.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Depositphotos_3255482_s-2015_WeddingRings.jpg?fit=500%2C500&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"500,500\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;Anton Balazh&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;Two wedding rings, like links in the chain are interconnected&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;Wedding rings&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;1&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"Wedding rings\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.nomadauthors.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Depositphotos_3255482_s-2015_WeddingRings.jpg?fit=500%2C500&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"wp-image-543 alignright\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.nomadauthors.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Depositphotos_3255482_s-2015_WeddingRings.jpg?resize=108%2C108&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Wedding rings\" width=\"108\" height=\"108\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.nomadauthors.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Depositphotos_3255482_s-2015_WeddingRings.jpg?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.nomadauthors.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Depositphotos_3255482_s-2015_WeddingRings.jpg?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.nomadauthors.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Depositphotos_3255482_s-2015_WeddingRings.jpg?w=500&amp;ssl=1 500w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 108px) 85vw, 108px\" \/>given me gifts that can&#8217;t be measured in terms of money or usability: his name, his heart, and time to share his life.<\/p>\n<p>Read the next blog in the blog hop by going <a href=\"http:\/\/mfrw52week.blogspot.com\/\">here<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/nomadauthors.com\/deesknight\/\">Dee<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/2q7ovi4\">Only a Good Man Will Do<\/a>: Seriously ambitious man seeks woman to encourage his goals, support his (hopeful) position as Headmaster of Westover Academy, and be purer than Caesar&#8217;s wife. Good luck with that!<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/2q7Jp0S\">Naval Maneuvers<\/a>: When a woman requires an earth-shattering crush of pleasure to carry her away, she can&#8217;t do better than to call on the US Navy. Sorry, Marines!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I am not married to a romantic. Don&#8217;t get me wrong, he has his moments\u2014lots of them, actually\u2014but not really when it comes to gifts. He doesn&#8217;t give me flowers\u2014ever. He is of the opinion that when a man buys a woman flowers he&#8217;s feeling guilty about something. And he doesn&#8217;t buy perfume or pretty &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nomadauthors.com\/blog\/2019\/05\/28\/the-sort-of-not-appreciated-gift-mfrwauthor\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;The (sort of not) appreciated gift #MFRWauthor&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[5,1],"tags":[597,596,8,600,602,599,49,594,598,47,595,601],"class_list":["post-1013","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-author-information","category-uncategorized","tag-baby-ruth","tag-briefcase","tag-dee-s-knight","tag-digital-camera","tag-ebook-reader","tag-flowers","tag-gift","tag-gift-giving","tag-jewelry","tag-kitchen-aid","tag-presents","tag-speakers"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p9wA33-gl","jetpack-related-posts":[],"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nomadauthors.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1013","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nomadauthors.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nomadauthors.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nomadauthors.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nomadauthors.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1013"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.nomadauthors.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1013\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1020,"href":"https:\/\/www.nomadauthors.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1013\/revisions\/1020"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nomadauthors.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1013"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nomadauthors.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1013"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nomadauthors.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1013"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}