Look, Mom! I won! #MFRWauthor

Lottery!Ah! Winning the lottery Who doesn’t dream of this happening? I’ve dreamed of it so often, for years I considered it my Retirement Plan. No. Really.

But then again, I’m already retired and have I won the lottery? Heck no. Good thing I kept my day job.

Still, it’s fun to play “What if…?” I know a few things I would do, for sure.

  • Take the money in a lump sum. None of this doling out the funds year by year. No one knows how much time they have left, and if I get called to heaven sooner than I think I will, I want to have enjoyed every single cent I can before I go.
  • Pay off all my debts. Not that there are all that many, but I’d like not to have to worry about owing anyone. That way I can lay on that beach with nothing niggling at the back of my mind. “Did I pay the mortgage this month?” “Do I have anything left on the student loan?” “Have I paid the pool boy his monthly stipend?” Nope. Don’t want any of that on my mind.
  • Gift those I love and who have loved me all these years. I’d give my mom and aunt anything their little heart’s desire. Ditto for my wonderful in-laws. And my friends—I have a few who could really use some help. One dear friend has a son with autism, and another has a brother in the same boat. I’d like for them not to have to worry about their loved one’s futures.
  • Donate to my favorite charities. Shriners Hospitals would get a big donation, as would several other places. If I have it, I want to share it.
  • Go back to Scotland. It’s one of the places I’d like to visit again and Piper in Scotlandshow it off to Jack. Scotland is one of my favorite places on earth.
  • Buy books. If I have anything left after all that, I’d buy as many books as I want.Yippee!

When we buy lottery tickets—which is not all that often—we buy only one. Don’t have particular numbers, don’t say a prayer beforehand or go through any special rituals. I figure if God wants me to win the lottery, one ticket will be enough, and it won’t matter which numbers I choose. If God doesn’t want me to win (and so far, not that I doubt His wisdom, but I do think it’s an oversight on His part), it won’t matter if I buy a thousand tickets or use the birth date of the Archangel Michael for the numbers. So far, God has seen fit to keep me humble…and poor. Oh well. Life is still good.

What would you do with lottery winnings?
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Dee
Burning Bridges by Anne Krist: old letters put the lie to Sara’s life. Now, mending her past mistakes while crossing burning bridges will be the hardest thing she’s ever done.

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Daylight Saving Time: Bleh! #MFRWauthor

Daylight Saving TimeI might be one of those few people who really things the great outdoors is overrated. I don’t particularly enjoy being in the bright sunshine (I have to worry about a lady’s fair complexion), I’ve never been one for sports or strenuous activities, picnics only attract insects, and sitting out in the late evening with a cup (or glass) of an adult beverage has me swatting mosquitoes and wishing I were inside on my recliner. In other words, having an extra hour of afternoon sunlight has never been important to me.

In the natural course of the seasons, the sun is going to rise and set differently regardless of what humans do. God made it that way. God should be the only one to change it. And God knows, when He does change it, we won’t be able to escape the change!

I don’t like the whole Spring Forward scenario. I feel tired for days afterward for missing that hour of sleep. And even when we Fall Back, I actually feel like the day should be over long before it is. It’s not good for a body to have to adjust like that. Cows agree with me. They want to be milked when they want to be milked and be damned what the clock says. You know that’s right.

Plus, there’s always one clock or two that doesn’t change automatically.Changing time Or one that doesn’t backup, only changes by going forward and you have to go through a whole day’s worth of hours in order to get it set properly. One year I forgot how to change the time on my car’s clock and had to keep the correct time in my head by mentally adjusting it back until I was relieved by the fall’s change. Such a pain!

Therefore, I protest Daylight Saving Time. Do away with it! To heck with the amusement and entertainment world and the retail outlets who want that extra daylight for people to come and spend money. There’s plenty of time for fathers and mothers to get home from work and cut grass and barbecue without changing the Course of the Clocks. Down with Daylight Saving Time!

Do you agree?

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Dee
Burning Bridges by Anne Krist: old letters put the lie to Sara’s life. Now, mending her past mistakes while crossing burning bridges will be the hardest thing she’s ever done.

One Woman Only
Only a Good Man Will Do
Naval Maneuvers 

I’m weird #MFRWauthor

It might mean I’m weird, but I enjoy editing.

There. I’ve said it. I always like reading over my work after I’ve let it sit for a while, and editing lets me do that. Before I started self-publishing, I almost never read my work after it was published because I saw mistakes that I couldn’t go back and correct. But when an editor sends back suggestions/changes, it gives me a chance to see the book from someone else’s perspective. That’s usually helpful.Editor

I remember the first book I wrote, Impatient Passion. The publisher had told me how much she enjoyed the book. The first thing I read from the editor was what a great book she thought it was, and how there were not many edits. Yippee, I thought. The book is good and there are only a few changes.

Then I turned the page.

There were so many Track Changes markups I could hardly see the text. What would a book look like that had many edits? I wondered.

Fortunately, I soon got the hang of what I was supposed to do and thereEditing aren’t so many changes marked by editors now. Impatient Passion was the first time I’d ever been edited, excluding school where “editing” meant being graded. I didn’t view it as a fun experience then. Since then I’ve come to accept that it’s a part of the writing process—a good part!

What is your experience with editing?

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Dee
Burning Bridges by Anne Krist: old letters put the lie to Sara’s life. Now, mending her past mistakes while crossing burning bridges will be the hardest thing she’s ever done.

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Only a Good Man Will Do
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Dieting for summertime #MFRWauthor

DietingI am of the firm opinion that D-I-E-T is a 4-letter word. It can make strong women gasp and weak women wilt. It stirs more feelings between the sexes as other, more sexual words do not. Such as, Gender A resents the feeling that they have to diet to please Gender B, and Gender B feels some guilt for the desire to see Gender A in skimpy bathing suits that might require—yes—a diet.

Was that clear as mud?

It’s no secret that women frequently suffer from some form of body shame. Even women who aren’t overweight often feel that they are and attempt to whittle away at however many calories or carbs they consume each day. But no time engenders this activity more than the months before summer. I believe that’s because of the aforementioned bathing suit dilemma.

Because my dad was in the Navy, we lived for a good number of yearsBikini and dieting near the water. Nine years in Virginia Beach during my pre-teen and teen years meant that my mother and I spent March, April, and May eating lots of carrots and celery sticks. Neither of us wanted to be odd girl out when we hit the beaches—not that I did all that often with my Irish, burn-don’t-tan complexion. But still, I wanted to look the part. I can attest to the fact that dieting for summer is a stupid way to live your life, and fortunately, I gave it up many years ago.

My advice? Eat healthfully all the time. That doesn’t mean to do without calories or carbs. It means to eat what your body needs, not what some magazine tells you to. It means to be comfortable with your body, even if you’re a few pounds (not fifty or a hundred pounds) over what the charts say you should be. Dieting stringently for a few weeks or months rarely has any lasting positive results—just the opposite, strangely—whereas consistently eating healthfully will.

What do you think?

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Dee
Burning Bridges by Anne Krist: old letters put the lie to Sara’s life. Now, mending her past mistakes while crossing burning bridges will be the hardest thing she’s ever done.

One Woman Only
Only a Good Man Will Do
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Sometimes I read (gulp!) non-fiction #MFRWauthor

Yes, when I read something outside my comfort zone, it is likely to be non-fiction. Why is non-fiction kind of weird for me to read? Because I love romance, thrillers, police and FBI procedurals, legal mysteries, all things that spur emotion. And let’s face it, most non-fiction doesn’t really make your heart jump or adrenaline spike. Or the heart go pitter-patter. But once in a while I do pick up a non-fiction book. But only when the subject matter really (really, really) appeals to me.

Examples? American Caesar (William Manchester) was a biography of a complicated Douglas Macarthur. I’d always wondered what the truth was between him and President Truman and why Macarthur’s men loved him in WWI and seemed to hate him in WWII. Flags of our Fathers (James Iwo JimaBradley) told the story of the U.S. Marines at Iwo Jima. This was a hard book to read at times, but my father-in-law fought in the Pacific as did my great-uncle, so I thought it was important. Marine! The Life of Chesty Puller (Burke Davis) tells the story of the Marine Corps legend. My father-in-law was a Marine and you say the words Chesty Puller and practically every Marine in the room stands to attention. I wanted to know why.

Do you detect a theme? 😉 I’ve read a few other non-fictions recently, like The Immortal Life of Henrietta Lacks (Rebecca Skloot) and Undaunted Courage (Stephen Ambrose). I have to admit, though, I only read them because of the book club I belonged to.

I might be a slug for falling back into reading what I like, when makes me smile, and what makes my heart feel mushy. I probably am a slug for “giving in,” and not trying to develop my mind more. But you know what? I don’t care. I read for relaxation and fun. No apologies, even though I sorta feel like I should…

What do you read that’s outside your comfort zone?

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Dee
Burning Bridges by Anne Krist: old letters put the lie to Sara’s life. Now, mending her past mistakes while crossing burning bridges will be the hardest thing she’s ever done.

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Only a Good Man Will Do
Naval Maneuvers

Family memories #MFRWauthor

Navy was my dad's lifeI have a very small family. I’m an only child. In Jack’s family, his parents had his brother and him, and neither Jack nor his brother aspired to having children. So if I want to ask about memories, I have few choices.

Of those few people, there are some interesting experiences. My grandfather came from Lithuania when he was a baby, and through Ellis Island. My grandmother spoke nothing but German until she went to school and grew up in the farming communities of South Dakota. On my dad’s side, his parents grew up and married deep in the mountains around Asheville, North Carolina, when horses and wagons were the mode of transportation for getting farm products to town. But I think the person I’d like to talk to again, given the chance, is my dad.

He got his sister to sign enlistment papers so he could join the Navy before he was 18, and he stayed in for more than 20 years. That’s what I’d like to ask him about. Growing up, I rarely heard him talk about anything Navy related. He really much for talking at all, really. But I would like to know what standing watch was like, how did it feel in the middle of the ocean, knowing there was nothing but water for hundreds of miles, in any direction. How did it feel in a storm? What did he feel when he rose in the morning to a sunrise over the sea, or think about the adage “Red sky at night, sailor’s delight. Red sky at morning, sailor take warning”? Is that true?

Dad worked as a boiler tender, deep in the bowels of the both destroyers Destroyerand aircraft carriers and far below the water line. Did he ever have any harrowing experiences? What was it like working in those conditions? How did he sleep in an area filled with other guys, and did he get homesick?

Dad was on ships that cruised both the Atlantic and the Pacific. I wonder what was different about them, and how it felt visiting ports of call all over the world. There’s so much I’d like to know now. Why didn’t I ever ask him about his life and memories? I guess because as a child I wasn’t interested, and as an adult I figured there would always be time.

So, whose memories would you like to probe (or wish you had probed)? If you still have the chance to ask questions, don’t let the opportunity pass!

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Dee
Burning Bridges by Anne Krist: old letters put the lie to Sara’s life. Now, mending her past mistakes while crossing burning bridges will be the hardest thing she’s ever done.

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Only a Good Man Will Do
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Super Bowl ads #MFRWauthor

FootballWhile I didn’t watch the Super Bowl this year—except for the last 10 minutes or so to see the Chiefs win—I did see a few of those special Super Bowl ads.

Years ago, watching the ads created just for the year’s biggest football game was a treat. I know people who watched the game just to see the ads! Sadly (to me), the last few years have seen the politicization of almost everything, including the advertisements during the Super Bowl. WHY???? Can’t we leave one thing alone and just concentrate on being happy, a little crazy, and entertained? Can’t we just tear up as Busch and the Clydesdales honor our military, and can’t we groan a little over Doritos stupid, slapstick message and not have to worry about what side to take on the politically correct notions blasted into our living rooms? Whew! Rant over.

This year, from what I saw, we got back to that entertainment factor.

So the favorite Super Bowl ad I saw was for Alexa. I don’t have an Alexa and don’t want an Alexa, but I could appreciate the idea of what we would have done before it was available. What we did for “Alexa” through past ages was clever and made me laugh—just the kind of advertising I will remember! Thank you, Amazon!

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Dee
Burning Bridges by Anne Krist: old letters put the lie to Sara’s life. Now, mending her past mistakes while crossing burning bridges will be the hardest thing she’s ever done.

One Woman Only
Only a Good Man Will Do
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The political climate #MFRWauthor

DisagreementsNo one who lives in the U.S. can be unaware of our current toxic political climate. It’s gotten to the point where people can be attacked for the hat they wear, or an argument can occur between strangers over a candidate’s plan for health care. Know what it is? It’s ridiculous, is what it is. When did we stop being a country where people could disagree without fear of fistfights? When did people stop mattering less than being “right?”

I admit, I’ve gotten to the age where I don’t care as much what other folks think of me. But even I wouldn’t go outside the house wearing a red ballcap—even if it was just a red ball cap and carried no message. Discuss politics? I wouldn’t mention it to a stranger. In the past, politics might bring on a few sneers or a dismissal, or a spirited discussion. Today, a disagreement over our government can land you in the hospital.

However…when it comes to family, I share my thoughts.

My parents were always a little more conservative than my grandparents. American politicsMom and Dad usually voted for the candidate who supported the military more. My grandmother was a die-hard Democrat, a union steward in the plant where she worked, and had strong opinions she would voice anywhere about who should be running things. Contrary to most of my contemporaries who grew up during the Vietnam War, I leaned more toward my parents’ views than the revolutionaries’. Now, my mom leans more toward her mother—less conservative and more progressive. Do we battle it out during phone calls? Yes. Do we still love each other? YES! We’re family and we love each other despite any comments about the elections.

I wish everyone were more that way. Share your opinions, go home as friends. As it is, I discuss politics with my family, but not with friends. I value my friendships much more than I value making a point over something I have little control over anyway.

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Dee
Burning Bridges by Anne Krist: old letters put the lie to Sara’s life. Now, mending her past mistakes while crossing burning bridges will be the hardest thing she’s ever done.

One Woman Only
Only a Good Man Will Do
Naval Maneuvers

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